{"id":2880,"date":"2017-12-27T15:15:06","date_gmt":"2017-12-27T21:15:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.maxmarmer.com\/blog\/?p=2880"},"modified":"2018-11-14T14:43:32","modified_gmt":"2018-11-14T20:43:32","slug":"2880-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.maxmarmer.com\/blog\/2880-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Do You Want to Know the REAL SECRET to Healing All Your Neuroses and Trauma?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s this.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"_47e3 _5mfr\" title=\"\u00e9motic\u00f4ne grin\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"img\" role=\"presentation\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/f51\/1\/16\/1f603.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bob Newhart-Stop It\" width=\"900\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Ow0lr63y4Mw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Despite the satirical callousness of this approach, it is not without merit when used in its proper context.<\/p>\n<p>From a neuroplasticity perspective whatever we give attention to is biologically strengthened, and whatever we ignore is biologically weakened.<\/p>\n<p>The neurons associated with particular experiences literally grow or die based on how we respond to them when they enter our consciousness.<\/p>\n<p>The oft-used pithy phrase is &#8220;Neurons that fire together, wire together.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The biggest missing ingredient from going from comedic awakening to realization is &#8216;how&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How do I stop my ingrained patterns of thinking?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The answer is:<\/p>\n<p>a) The right training in meditation to learn how to control your thoughts<\/p>\n<p>b) the right therapeutic methods to activate and release childhood trauma and attachment disorders<\/p>\n<p>c) Finding loving, accepting friends, family and healers, who hold you as both perfect as you are and your potential on the other side of your healing<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s this. &nbsp; Despite the satirical callousness of this approach, it is not without merit when used in its proper context. 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