{"id":2983,"date":"2017-12-26T22:03:52","date_gmt":"2017-12-27T04:03:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.maxmarmer.com\/blog\/?p=2983"},"modified":"2018-11-14T14:43:35","modified_gmt":"2018-11-14T20:43:35","slug":"not-nail-ready-heal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.maxmarmer.com\/blog\/not-nail-ready-heal\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;It&#8217;s Not About the Nail!&#8221; &#8211; On Being Ready to Heal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At our Christmas Gathering we had some beautiful discussions about how to help friends heal from trauma and get unstuck in life.<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes no matter what you do or how you are with some people they aren&#8217;t ready to transform.<\/p>\n<p>The deeper truth is that we often have karmic contracts where we have to be in an experience of pain and suffering for a certain length of time before we are ready for change.<\/p>\n<p>When we ultimately do heal and transform, the solution was often starring us in the face for a long period before, we just weren&#8217;t ready to receive it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not about the nail!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"It&#039;s Not About The Nail\" width=\"900\" height=\"506\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-4EDhdAHrOg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At our Christmas Gathering we had some beautiful discussions about how to help friends heal from trauma and get unstuck in life. 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