If you see yourself as process and truly understand where that process is going then you are not insulted when someone points out your flaws or reveals a specific ignorance, especially if they also have obtained the process perspective.

Rather than becoming defensive and indignant you respond with something more like:

“OMG, thank you for showing me my blind spots and helping me get closer to my highest self. I will start working on my issues now and keep you up to date on my progress and the challenges that come up. Thank you for your continued assistance, it’s rare to find someone who can understand me so accurately and will take the time to help me grow from a place of love. I know you’re only doing this because you love me and believe in my potential. I am humbled and will not let you down.”