At our Christmas Gathering we had some beautiful discussions about how to help friends heal from trauma and get unstuck in life.

But sometimes no matter what you do or how you are with some people they aren’t ready to transform.

The deeper truth is that we often have karmic contracts where we have to be in an experience of pain and suffering for a certain length of time before we are ready for change.

When we ultimately do heal and transform, the solution was often starring us in the face for a long period before, we just weren’t ready to receive it.

“It’s not about the nail!”